Thursday, October 7, 2010

If Life Was A Slut, It'd Be Easy


Argh! I am so tired of the negativity that surrounds me. I am not a negative person. Never do I say “Oh poor me.” When crap hits the fan, I shrug my shoulders and find a way to make it work. I am the kind of person that doesn't get stressed. I have to laugh at things when they happen, because getting mad, screaming and yelling just makes it worse. I take life seriously when I have to, don't get me wrong, but life is so much more enjoyable when you enjoy it.


I know they say misery loves company, but I am not one to be miserable so why do these people find me? Maybe because I am too nice, maybe because I can’t say no, maybe because I don’t tell them to go away, even though deep down inside I just want to say, shut up and FUCK OFF! I do like to listen to people, I am here when anyone needs to vent. It just gets old when the person keeps venting and complaining about the SAME DAMN THING!

 ~*I would like to by a vowel Pat. I would like to buy a U.*~

Sorry for this bit of a rant. I just don’t know why on earth people cannot be happy with what they DO have! They have a roof over their heads, yet they complain that they don’t have a BIGGER roof over their heads. They have a vehicle that get’s them to where they need to go and some, and they complain that they don’t have a BIGGER and BETTER vehicle to get there where they need to go. They have a job that makes decent money, yet they complain that they don’t make enough money. They complain, yet do nothing in order to achieve what they are complaining about.

~*The guys in the picture were found at, Toothpaste For Dinner*~

Just be happy with what you DO have. If you want something you don’t have, then find a way to get it, but don’t bring people down with you because you don’t take those steps to get what you want

I know I want a lot of things, but I don’t go around being negative Nancy and say “Woe is me. Please throw me a pity party. It’s time for ME to get something. What about me?”

I know it sucks when there is no money coming in. I am in that position. I get unemployment, and thank goodness it is just barely enough to pay the bills. I have applied for over 100 jobs, and I have had one interview. I understand how life kicks you in the gut, but you have to toughen up butter cup, it’s life.

This is more towards the people in my life. If it was for anyone in the blogosphere, I would just stop following you. Haha!

On a positive note, I do want to say HI to all my 60 followers! You all rock! Whatever the reason is for following, I just want to say thank you!

  
I know I am a hypocrite. I am complaining about complaining.

6 comments:

Damn The Broccoli said...

Oh god how much do I agree here.
I had to listen to someone moaning about buying a new satnav today, it will be the tird one in four years for this particular person.

Some people!

Canadianbloggergirl said...

Love It!
life is a bitch, cause if it were a slut, it'd be easy....

too funny!

CBG
canadianbloggergirl.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

I get that a lot with people I hang with. They'll have a fancy iPhone that I'll never have and yet they want another phone or what not. I hate whiners and yes I whine a lot but I try to keep it from the public because I'm nice like that. Well except on my blog, sometimes, I'm trying to change that ^_^

I hope you get another interview soon!

http://theadorkableditzmissteps.blogspot.com/

murphyfish said...

Hello BM,
Just love this spleen venting post so much, you've managed capture so much here abut what really gets under my skin about many people that I know. Oh and ' I am complaining about complaining.' what could be sweeter?
All the best,
John

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Pick it up here:

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SD

Sunshine Morrighan said...

You know people like to talk the talk . . . but very few walk the walk . . . which why I'm buying "U"s left and right. LOL There's nothing wrong with being ambitious, but you actually have to take action. Sitting around and whining about stuff, doesn't solve problems. I'm sorry that there are such toxic people in your life. I hope you can find a way to weed them out of your life for good.